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Pastor’s Discovery Class – The Process of Sin

Pastor’s Discovery Class

The Process of Sin

One constant in our lives is the propensity we have to sin and make mistakes. It happens to all of us and none of us are immune to this event. It is a part of the depravity of mankind that propels him into sin if he does not guard himself. In fact, John states that it is a sin to think that we do not sin. He says “If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us” (1 John 1:8). 

As I have studied the word of God there seems to be a defined pattern for sin that takes place over and over again. The purpose of this study is to look at this process and to establish ways to diminish the work of sin in our lives.

The pattern or process of sin is illustrated by Adam and Eve, Achan and David. Each of these very clearly followed this pattern. What is the pattern? It is:

  • Each of them saw…..
  • Each of them coveted…..
  • Each of them took ……
  • Each of them hid …..
  • And, each of them was confronted…..

Let us look at the story of the fall of Adam and Eve and subsequently all of mankind:

Gen 3:1-13 Now the serpent was more crafty than any other beast of the field that the LORD God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God actually say, ‘You shall not eat of any tree in the garden’?” And the woman said to the serpent, “We may eat of the fruit of the trees in the garden, but God said, ‘You shall not eat of the fruit of the tree that is in the midst of the garden, neither shall you touch it, lest you die.'” But the serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die. For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate, and she also gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate. Then the eyes of both were opened, and they knew that they were naked. And they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loincloths. And they heard the sound of the LORD God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the LORD God among the trees of the garden. But the LORD God called to the man and said to him, “Where are you?” And he said, “I heard the sound of you in the garden, and I was afraid, because I was naked, and I hid myself.” He said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten of the tree of which I commanded you not to eat?” The man said, “The woman whom you gave to be with me, she gave me fruit of the tree, and I ate.” Then the LORD God said to the woman, “What is this that you have done?” The woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.”

A couple of comments before we look at the process:

The temptation to doubt God and to doubt the truth of His word is very real and can lead us into sin. The serpent deceived Eve with doubt and the life long battle of being like God. Notice that the serpent said “did God really say.” This is the one tool that is the most effective in our lives. When thoughts of doubt come we begin to doubt the truth of God’s word and whether or not He is who He says He is and so on. If the enemy can get us to doubt he has us where he wants us.

Secondly, the temptation to be like God is also very real. The serpent convinced Eve that the reason that God did not want them to eat of the fruit of the tree is that in so doing they would become like gods and God did not want that. This has been the battle since that time; e.g. man trying to get to God in his own way or in trying to lower God to his standard. Either way we fail. Today, the big issue is to diminish God and bring Him to our level by saying that we are all gods.

The process:

1. Eve saw that the tree was good for food. It is important to note that no sin had been committed at this juncture. It is not a sin to be tempted. In fact, the Bible says that Jesus was tempted in all points as we were but without sin. For because he himself has suffered when tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted. (Hebrews 2:18) For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin. (Hebrews 4:15). This is where we get in trouble because sometimes we are convinced that because we were tempted we might as well do the sin. That is wrong.

2. Eve coveted the fruit because she saw that it was a delight to the eyes and that the tree would make one wise. Who would not want that but as we have experienced in our lives sin has consequences that must be paid. It is at this stage as we can begin to move into a state of sin when we begin to conspire to act out the sin. We say things like I would do this if no one would find out. James had this to say about being tempted. He stated Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God,” for God cannot be tempted with evil, and he himself tempts no one. But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death. Do not be deceived, my beloved brothers.

3. She took of the fruit and ate it and she gave some to her husband. For those who think that Adam was somehow innocent, this passage reminds us that he was just as culpable. He stood by and let his wife fall into the trap of sin that would change the face of the earth and all of mankind forever. Sin has its consequences and their innocence was shattered forever. They now saw that they were naked and they were ashamed.

4. They hid themselves by sewing fig leaves to make loin cloths to hide their nakedness. What God created had now become a shame to them. Think with me about how much in our society is geared towards nudity and sexual immorality. Not only did they attempt to hide themselves by covering up their nudity, they also hid from God. “I heard the sound of you in the Garden and I was afraid because I was naked and I hid myself.” In terms of our relationship with God our relationship with Him is always affected when we live in unconfessed sin. Man was cowering in fear and shame. He now had a diminished view of the capacity of God to love him regardless of what he had done.    

5. They were confronted by God. Notice Adam’s response. That woman you gave me. You will know the depth of your sin by how you try to shift blame or divert attention away from the sin you have committed. How do you respond when you are confronted by your sin:

 a. It was that wife or husband you gave me.

b. It was that friend.

c. It wasn’t me.

d. It was not my fault.

e. I didn’t know it was a sin.

 For personal study review the story of Achan and David:

  1. The story of Achan – Joshua 7.
  2. The story of David – 2 Samuel 11 & 12.

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Are You Committed – Divorce

Peninsula Community Church 

March 20, 2011

Sermon on the Mount

Committed for Life?

 Matthew 5:31-32  “It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

Introduction:

My goal in this message today is to balance God’s truth with God’s grace and His love. The discussion of divorce has been one that has created controversy in churches around the world. The problem is that we often respond in one of two ways. We can take the legalistic approach to divorce by giving no room for grace to those who have experienced it or who are dealing with the effects of it in their life. Or, we take the extreme liberal approach and say anything goes and deny that there are consequences to our decisions.

This issue of divorce was brought home to me by a debate that I and several other pastors were having several years ago. In the discussion, one pastor made an observation that I will never forget. He said that he could preach in any church in America because he has never been divorced. This is in spite of the fact that before he became a believer he admittedly had more than 250 different partners in his life and that he most likely had children all over America. The reason for this is that he had been a part of a motor cycle gang before he had become a believer and had lived a promiscuous lifestyle. Conversely, a 16 year old kid who got his girlfriend pregnant and was forced to marry her; then found out that that was the worst thing they could have done divorces her he cannot preach in most churches in America. This is in spite of his conversion, confession of faith and true repentance after the divorce.

As we look at this issue this morning we will look at the debate of Jesus’ time, the plan of God for marriage and divorce, the reality of our time, the causes of divorce and finally we will look at the hope for those who have experienced such an event in their lives.

The DebateAs we read this passage today Jesus is responding to the debate of His of day. The religious leaders were debating the grounds by which one would be allowed to divorce. The Pharisees dragged Jesus into the debate in Matthew 19:3 when they asked Jesus if it were lawful to divorce their wives for any reason.

Once again Jesus is put in the position of having to counter the way the old law was being interpreted with the new law that is measured by grace and mercy and not by the hardness of fulfilling some predetermined and pre-described list of rules. As in the issue of anger and lust the Pharisees had hijacked and bent the original intent of the law of God to fit their concepts and ideals on what was acceptable for divorce to take place.

In the days of the New Testament, the man was in total control of his wife. And many religious leaders believed that divorce could occur for any reason and at any time. Rabbi Akibah a respected Rabbi among the Pharisees interpreted the law of divorce to mean that the man could divorce the woman for any reason. If she burned the meal, he could divorce her. If she over salted the food, he could divorce her. He even went so far as to say that the man could divorce the wife if he found another woman that was more attractive or younger. If he were to divorce his wife he was to give her a document that stated she had been released from the marriage and was allowed to marry without moral implications. This was hard on the woman because in most cases she would have no revenue stream, no home and no financial support from her previous spouse.

 Jesus counters this belief by establishing the parameters of divorce on moral grounds. And yet he does not forbid divorce absolutely as He provides the morality clause as a way to break the covenant in Matthew 5 and Matthew 19. And in I Corinthians 7 the basis of Paul’s teaching was that if an unbelieving spouse pursues divorce the believing spouse is released.

The Plan It is important to note that God’s plan is for marriage to be a commitment for life. In God’s eyes marriage is a sacred covenant between a man and a woman. Therefore, divorce was never God’s intent or His will. When two people marry they were to commit themselves to a union of their lives into one flesh and into one being. In Genesis 2:24 God says that Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. The idea expressed in this picture is that of two pieces of paper that are glued together. Each person will have their own personalities, goals and dreams but they come together to see that come to pass in each other. This is why divorce is so painful and creates lasting scars and wounds.

The problem today however is that marriage is often entered into so lightly that many will have one foot out the door before the ink is dried on the paper. I often ask a question when I do marriage counseling that gets a variety of answers. I ask “Why do you want to be married?” I asked one young guy this question and he said that “He had never been married and wanted to give it a shot to see if it would work.” This did not give me great hope that the marriage would last.

The RealityThe reality is that because of human depravity and the fallen nature of mankind divorce is a very real issue for us. The statistics are clear today about the state of marriage in America:

  • Fifty percent of those who marry today will divorce.
  • On the stress scale, divorce and separation are ranked 2nd and 3rd. Only the death of a spouse is rated higher. And many spouses polled stated that they would have preferred death over divorce because of the ongoing issues and problems faced.
  • More than 80 percent of those who are divorced will remarry within three years and 65 percent of those marriages will fail again.
  • More than a million children each year are involved in divorce and more than 13 million children under 18 live with one parent so that single parent families are growing at a rate twenty times faster than two parent families.

 The Cause – But why does this happen? Let me give you three reasons today:

The sinfulness of man. Man is sinful and therefore reacts to the draw of the sinful nature. Since the fall of man in the Garden of Eden man has been seeking to go his own way and do his own thing. Rather than live out his commitments, it is easier to reject God’s perfect will and his plan.

Self-centeredness – because of the sinfulness of man we have become a self-centered society and nation. To be selfish and self-centered is to be sensitive to your partner, to see things from only your way, to seek your good above all else, and to protect yourself first and foremost. Everything has become disposable today. Everything we buy has a life. For example laptop computers have an active life of approximately two years before it will be obsolete and out-of-date. New Cell Phones are coming out every year. Sometimes nothing has changed but the outside package. The problem is that we desire the latest and greatest thing to satisfy our desires and wants. We even apply this to marriage. I will stay married until a new model comes along or something new happens. Why because I need to be happy.

Hard-heartednessThis is also a sinful attitude and a result of the sinfulness of man. When one becomes self-centered they can also become hard-hearted and they will then begin to refuse to change. Even when confronted with the truth, they will refuse make the course adjustments they need to because they do not want to submit to anyone else.

The HopeBut this is not the whole story, there is more because there is hope.

God loves us regardless of what we have done. “The LORD is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love. For he knows our frame; he remembers that we are dust.” (Psalm 103:8, 14).

God forgives every sin and wrong we have committed. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (I John 1:9). The Lord made this very clear in His dealing with the woman who “was taken in adultery, in the very act” (John 8:4). He reminded her accusers that they also were sinners and had no warrant to punish her. Then He told the woman: “Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more” (John 8:11).

He in no way condoned her sin, but He did forgive her sin, when she gave evidence of godly sorrow and determination not to sin again in this way. Under such conditions, His followers would do well to follow His example. At least in this particular context, He put no further conditions on her freedom, either to return to her husband if he would have her, or to marry another if she were already divorced.

God restores every person who is willing to commit their life and their way to Him. Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. Through him we have also obtained access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and we rejoice in hope of the glory of God. More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. For while we were still weak, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly (Romans 5:1-6). We forget as believers that Jesus die for our sin to restore us and to make us whole.

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