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Rebuilding the Broken Places of Our Life

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Rebuilding the Broken Places of Our Life

March 19, 2017

Nehemiah 4:10-14 In Judah it was said, “The strength of those who bear the burdens is failing. There is too much rubble. By ourselves we will not be able to rebuild the wall.” And our enemies said, “They will not know or see till we come among them and kill them and stop the work.” At that time the Jews who lived near them came from all directions and said to us ten times, “You must return to us.” So in the lowest parts of the space behind the wall, in open places, I stationed the people by their clans, with their swords, their spears, and their bows. And I looked and arose and said to the nobles and to the officials and to the rest of the people, “Do not be afraid of them. Remember the Lord, who is great and awesome, and fight for your brothers, your sons, your daughters, your wives, and your homes.”

As you take your journey through life have you ever found yourself being strong and making great head way in overcoming problems and rebuilding that which is broken, only to find yourself in a weakened state at other times. It happens to all of us at some point in time. Life can be an ongoing process of ups and downs. It is an ebb and flow. You know how it is, you start to make great head way and then there is some event or circumstance that sends you spiraling downward.

What are the broken places in our lives? I would suggest a few here this morning. I am sure that you can add many others. Misplaced theology can cause a broken place in our life. We end up with a false view of God which causes a false view of ourselves. We are broken when our faith is tested beyond measure and we feel there is no hope. We are broken when the relationships we are in are broken. We are broken by false expectations of life. We are broken by misplaced desires and lust that over takes us. We are broken by illnesses that catch us by surprise. We are broken by our addictions which seem to control our every move. We are broken by emotional and psychological weaknesses that deter us from living the destiny that we were given by God.

We have all been broken in some way, at some time. It is for that reason that we will deal with the question of how to deal with the broken places of our life. In this study, we will look at just a couple of tools at our disposal. Before we look at the solutions we will look at three of the tools often used by the enemy to discourage the rebuilding process. These tactics are used to defeat us and keep us from rebuilding the broken places of our lives.

To begin with, we must recognize that the enemy does not want us to rebuild the broken places in our lives. He knows that when we do this, his access to our life will be cut off or at least minimized. Therefore, he will do everything in his power to stop and distract us from doing what is necessary to rebuild the broken places. You see the enemy knows that if you rebuild the broken places in your life, you will be an effective power house for God and he cannot stand for that or even the possibility of your success. He knows that he is defeated every time we rebuild  a broken place in our life. He is afraid of a healthy, healed believer in Christ.

So what does the enemy do? One of the tools the enemy uses is the tool of ridicule and mockery.  Sanballat resorts to this tactic to stop the rebuilding of the wall by distracting them from their purpose. It is noteworthy that Sanballat had nothing to add to the process so he resorts to mockery and ridicule. Mockery and ridicule can become the dripping faucet of discouragement. His goal in ridiculing and mocking is to bring hopelessness and to cause the builders to give up on the task before them.

Notice that Sanballat did not directly stop the work of building the wall, he simply offered discouragement and confusion. He knew that he did not have to stop the work if he could discourage them. Here is a fact that we need to know. The enemy of our soul cannot touch us unless we give him the authority and give him room to do so. We give him access by allowing sin to go unconfessed. We give his access by believing the lies spoken against us. We give him access by failing to recognize our destiny in God.

Peter understood this spiritual dynamic when he penned these words. Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world. And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you (1 Peter 5:8).

In getting to know Christ, we come to terms with the ploys of the enemy to discourage and cause us to become disconnected from God’s grace, His mercy, and His love. By resisting the devil and turning to Christ, He will restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you. Right now the way may seem rocky and may feel like you are on the ride of your life, but hold on because you are His child and He loves you more than you will ever know.

A second ploy used by the enemy is to cause confusion. When ridicule and mockery does not work the enemy then tries to engage with tactics that create confusion, doubt, and regret. When we walk in confusion, it is hard to know what to do and what the answers really are. Paul dealt with this issue when he stated that God is not a God of confusion but of peace (1 Corinthians 14:33). The underlying motive of all that God does is peace. It is the foundation and the basis of everything He is and does. The truth is, while the world can be falling apart around us we can still walk in peace.

You see the enemy loves to rob us of our peace by causing confusion which leads to doubt and desperation. On the other hand, God came to give us peace and not confusion. My guess today is  that if you are walking through a season of confusion then we need to identify the root cause and it is not God. Is there an unconfessed sin in your life, or is the enemy using confusion to distract and deter you from God’s purposes?

A third ploy used is to get our attention upon how much rubble there is. Sometimes when we are confronted with issues in life we can become overwhelmed with all that we are dealing with. The rubble around us relates to the health issues we face, the people we have to deal with, the financial struggles we face, or the unknown of the future. If we are not careful, the problems can mount up and we can be overwhelmed by all of the problems we are facing. The result is that we lose sight of the promise of God and we begin to believe that there is no hope for a better day.

The rubble we face becomes greater than the faith we have in God or in ourselves for that matter. To make this practical, we begin to believe that we are too messed up and that we have too many problems for our walls to be rebuilt. We get focused on what is left to be done rather than on what He has already done.

So how did Nehemiah deal with these things? First, Nehemiah encouraged and challenged Judah to continue to move forward. He knew that if they became stagnate that the work would never get done and they would never get the wall rebuilt which was paramount to their success and protection. So, they returned to work. They continued to move forward. They did not give up or give in. They continued to fight the battle. It is here that I am reminded of the words of God in 2 Chronicles 20. And he said, “Listen, all Judah and inhabitants of Jerusalem and King Jehoshaphat: Thus says the Lord to you, Do not be afraid and do not be dismayed at this great horde, for the battle is not yours but God’s (2 Chronicles 20:15). We can rest in and be assured that He will fight the battle, if we allow Him to.

Here is an interesting note, however, even though they knew the battle was the Lord’s and they had a confidence in Him, they also knew they needed to be prepared for battle, if necessary. That is why Nehemiah gives the order to be armed for battle but they were not to stop working. Therefore, they worked with a sword in one hand and a brick in the other. The understanding here is that whatever we are engaged in there will be a spiritual battle. We never stop focusing on Christ and His power to redeem us. The fact is, we can become so focused on the task that we forget that we are in a spiritual battle or we can be so focused on the spiritual battle that we never get anything accomplished. Nehemiah knew there was a healthy balance between the two.

Listen to the words of Paul in Ephesians 6. Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end, keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints, and also for me, that words may be given to me in opening my mouth boldly to proclaim the mystery of the gospel, for which I am an ambassador in chains, that I may declare it boldly, as I ought to speak (Ephesians 6:10-15).

Notice too that while each one was responsible for their part of the wall and they were responsible for their own protection, they did not work alone. They recognized they were a part of a bigger project and plan. They worked together. They knew that it was a team effort. They worked side-by-side with the same goal and aspirations. They were not divided or disconnected. Their mission was to rebuild the wall so that they could come to live in a new normal. What Nehemiah did was pretty amazing. When anyone needed help or they were being overrun by the enemy they were to sound an alarm by blowing a trumpet. This meant that everyone was to rally to that point so as to protect that part of the building.

How does this apply to us? The fact is there are times where we need help to rebuild the broken places of our lives. The easy thing for us to do is to isolate and think we can do this on our own, but God has placed us in a body of believers for a reason. When we are going through a difficult time, there is a need to rally those around us that will support us and help us through the battle. We need people of faith to rally along side of us and help us through the battle. The problem too often is that we want to isolate and separate ourselves but we need one another. That is not to say that we do not need time along with God but when we isolate ourselves too often that is where we begin to live and that causes us to be defeated before we get started. That is where we can give room for the enemy to control our lives.

I love the Scripture that is on the front of our bulletin today. Don’t panic I’m with you. There’s no need to fear, for I am your God. I’ll give you strength. I’ll help you. I’ll hold you steady and keep a firm grip  on you (Isaiah 41:10). Know this, God wants you to rebuild the broken places of your lives. He wants to bring you healing, restoration, and power. He is there to get you through the storm. He will help you rebuild. He will guide the restoration of your life. Give Him your worries and your cares. He will make a difference. In the final analysis, we need to recognize that the battle has already been won for us. We are redeemed and set free by God. Remember that all of our sins and past failures are under the blood.

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Lost and Found – Lessons Learned From Luke 15

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Lost and Found – Lessons Learned From Luke 15

August 23, 2015

Last week we began a series entitled “Lost and Found.” As we continue this series we will look today at how each of these parables teach us something about the ways we stray from God and how God is always ready to draw us back. In each parable, we are taught something about ourselves and how we can be so easily led astray.

The lost sheep in the first parable speaks to us about the distractions of life that cause us to wander from the presence of God. The fact is, we wander from God because we are distracted and oblivious to what is going on around us. To understand why this occurs we must understand a bit about sheep. To begin with, sheep are basically dumb animals. They tend to get lost because they simply wander away from the flock while they are grazing. This was so common that it was not an uncommon event for sheep to fall headlong over cliffs and die, or they would fall into ditches along the roadway. The shepherd was constantly rescuing the lost sheep and helping them to get back to the fold where they would be secure and be safely returned to the shepherd’s care.

Another thing about sheep is that they become restless very easily. They have a short attention span and they are constantly looking for food to satisfy them. For this reason, sheep can simply nibble their way to lostness. Their lostness is a series of small steps. In their restless, they are always looking for things to satisfy their hunger. The same applies to followers of Christ as we too get restless and we look to others things to satisfy our spiritual hunger (Isaiah 53:6). You see the role of the shepherd is to find good gazing ground (Psalms 78:52), but the restlessness of the sheep forces the sheep to ignore the shepherd’s leading as they look elsewhere for food.

In our restlessness, we feed on things that do not provide spiritual nourishment but rather draw us away from the Great Shepherd and the food he has planned for us. These things may include working harder, experimenting with drugs and alcohol as a means to deal with life’s issues. It might be sexual adventures. It might the world’s philosophies that draw us away from God. We wander and nibble on a little bit of this and a little bit of that but we are never satisfied. We keep nibbling and we keep moving further from the place God desires for us to be.

The fact of the matter is we are all prone to wander from the presence of God. One of my favorite hymns speaks to this issue. In the hymn “Come, Thou Fount of Every Blessing,” which was written in 1757 by 22-year-old Robert Robinson, there is a line that always captures my attention and forces me to self-evaluation. The line says, “Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it. Prone to leave the God I love.” I feel that way sometimes. Don’t you! Rather than having my heart and mind focused on the Savior who loves me and gave Himself for me, I find myself distracted and drifting away from God’s purpose. We don’t intend to drift, but we do. We are enticed by things that look so good but leave us hungry and empty.

But the grand miracle is that our tendency to wander is matched only by God’s willingness to pursue us at all cost. How grateful we can be for a patient, compassionate heavenly Father whose grace is always sufficient; even when we are prone to wander! How grateful we can be for a Heavenly Father who desires to pursue us when we are lost.

How does He pursue us? He does so by way of the Holy Spirit who speaks deep into our hearts and draws us back to Him. The Holy Spirit illuminates the hunger and dissatisfaction of our heart. In fact, I would say that if you are dissatisfied in your personal spiritual experience, it could be the Holy Spirt drawing you into a deeper relationship with Him.

Secondly, in the parable of the coin, the coin was lost by an act of carelessness. The issue here is that the woman did not protect what was given her. Some believe that she most likely had been entrusted with the coins by her husband as it was not normal in those days for women to have their own money. Regardless of the reason for her to have this money, she had lost the coin and was not even aware that it was lost until sometime later.

The thing about carelessness is that we never intend to lose that which is valuable to us. It often happens through neglect. For us spiritually, we forget to pray. We rush through our devotional time. We fail to join with others in worship and fellowship. We fail to keep the boundaries that keep us pure and holy. And then, we wake up only to find that we have become distant from God and that our fellowship with Him is strained. The result is that it feels that God is far away from us! We lose our intimacy with Him inadvertently through carelessness and neglect.

The problem with the lost coin is that as long as the coin was lost or out of circulation, it was useless. The coin could not be used for what it was intended. But with that said, we must be aware that no matter how lost the coin was, it was still marked with image of the emperor of the day. Now think about that for a moment, no matter how lost we might be we are still emblazoned with the image of God upon our lives (Genesis 1:26-27). Though damaged and lost we are still God’s possession and He so desires to seek after us and find us so as to restore us to right standing and usability!

Thirdly, the prodigal son was lost as a result of choices he made. In the first two parables, there does not appear to be a conscious decision to be lost but in the case of the prodigal son he made a conscious deliberate decision to wander from his father’s home. No one persuaded him, he made a choice. He began to dream and imagine what life would be on his own. He began to believe that the grass was greener on the other side. In some ways, he acted like the sheep by dreaming of something else in his life. He allowed complacency to draw his attention away from what he already possessed as his father’s son. We too can become complacent and forget what we already possess. We can begin to think that sinners have more fun than we do. We begin to think that God is holding out on us so we want what we want so as to feel we have value which we already have in Christ.

Here is a truth we must understand. Our free will which is a blessing, and at the same time a curse, gives us the opportunity to make choices. It is unfortunate that these decisions are not always the best of decisions. The problem with free will and free choice is that there are consequences to our decisions and we have to settle ourselves to those consequences, personally, whether the decisions are good or bad.

So what do we learn from this today? Let me give you a couple of things. First of all, God cares about us when we go off track. He seeks after us and desires to draw us back to the place we need to be. No matter the reason, the Father is always searching for us when we have wandered from the faith. The father heart of God is always searching for us. Remember what I said earlier: the miracle of this is that our tendency to wander is matched by God’s willingness to pursue.

Second, He will willingly allow us to go our way so that we understand and comprehend what we miss when we fail to follow God wholeheartedly. Throughout the Bible we find stories of people and even strong men of God who made poor choices and yet God allowed them to do so because by their actions they learned more about themselves and who they were. Remember the story of David who sinned greatly against God and his kingdom. What about Abraham who lied about Sarah being his wife and yet he was a friend of God and became the father of many nations. How awesome is that?

Thirdly, even when we are lost and separated, we are still marked by the Father. For the sheep, it was the ear tag or a brand that identified who they belonged to. It didn’t matter what happened to them, they were still marked by their owner. We need to know that no matter what we may have done as a believer in Christ, He has marked us and He searches after us.

Fourth, He welcomes us with a heart of forgiveness and reconciliation when we return to him. We see this in the parable of the prodigal son. The father is pacing the floor awaiting the arrival of his son. The father’s arms were outstretched and open for the son. He embraced him, loved him, and restored him to full sonship. So matter how far we run or how far we stray, he is waiting for us.

I ask that you listen to the great hymn of the faith I mentioned before. Use this song a means to ficus your attention on who you are and if you are prone to wander from God. Here is a link to the video.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BRVNZPyMOcM

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